More Books and Publications
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LGBTQ+
Getting Bi by Robyn Ochs​
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Velvet Rage by Alan Downs
Bi the Way: The Bisexual Guide to Life by Lois Shearing​​
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Bisexuality: The Basics: Your Q&A Guide to Coming Out, Dating, Parenting and Beyond by Lewis Oakley​
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LATE BLOOMER BABY BOOMER: A Collection of Humorous Essays About Being Gay Back in the Day and Finally Finding My Way by Steve Milliken
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Bisexual Married Men by Robert Brooks Cohen
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Not Gay: Sex between Straight White Men (Sexual Cultures) by Jane Ward
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Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto by Zachary Zane
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What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality by Daniel A. Helminiak PhD
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Bisexual Men Exist: A Handbook for Bisexual, Pansexual and M-Spec Men by Vaneet Mehta
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It Ain’t Over Til the Bisexual Speaks: An Anthology of Bisexual Voices edited by Lois Shearing and Vaneet Mehta
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Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality by Dr. Julia Shaw
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The Overcoming Soul: Breaking Free from Sexual Identity Confusion by Martina D. Collymore
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You Are Not Alone! (I Promise): The Journey of a Pansexual, Gender Fluid, Crossdresser by Robin Raynor
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The Bisexual's Guide to the Universe: Quips, Tips, and Lists for Those Who Go Both Ways by Nicole Kristal, Mike Szymanski
Relationship/ Self Help
What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal By John Gottman Ph.D. & Nan Silver
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Pathways to Success Readings for couples in mixed-orientation relationships by Mark Rheault
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Uncommon Lives, Gay Men and Straight Women by Catherine Whitney
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Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach
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Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?: A Guide for Women Concerned about Their Men by Joe Kort PhD LMSW AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor of Sex Therapy
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman PhD & Nan Silver​​​
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Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic & the Domestic by Esther Perel
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How to Be Happy, Dammit: A Cynic's Guide to Spiritual Happiness by Karen Salmansohn ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
Sexual Health
Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Lifeby Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin
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The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness by Miriam Kaufman, Fran Odette, and Cory Silverberg
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Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Anal Sex Basics: The Beginner's Guide to Maximizing Anal Pleasure for Every Body by Carlyle Jansen
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Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski PhD
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Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections Hardcover by Emily Nagoski PhD
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​With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect by Stefani Goerlich​​​​​​​
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Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship by Stephen Snyder, M.D.
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Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo
by Cooper S. Beckett, Lyndzi Miller
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Non-Monogamy
Opening up by Tristan Taormino
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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern ​
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The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Janet W. Hardy
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The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy by Lola Phoenix
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The Polyamory Paradox: Finding Your Confidence in Consensual Non-Monogamy by Irene Morning
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Fiction
This Is Why They Hate Us
by Aaron H. Aceves, Alejandro Ruiz [Young adult Bisexual coming of age]​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin
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Captive Prince
Book 1 of 3: by C. S. Pacat, Stephen Bel Davies [M/M Romance]
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Deep Space Mission Corps #1 Love at First Bight by Tymber Dalton [Menage Amour: Erotic Futuristic Menage a Quatre Romance, M/M/M/F with various combination of M/M, M/F, M/M/F, M/M/M, monogamous polyamory, reverse harem]
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Heartstopper Series Volume 1-4 Books Set By Alice Oseman
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