MOR Resources & Information
These resources have either been vetted by our admins or recommended by group members at some point. We encourage you to check them out and share them with your partner. Not all of them are solely MOR-related, but someone somewhere found them helpful along the way.
If you, a partner, or a friend has found resources that you would like to share, we encourage you to reach out via our home page suggestions form or email us at RealMORandmore@gmail.com.
Hosted by MOR & more admins, this private Facebook group is designed for both LGBTQ+ and straight partners in mixed orientation relationships to have open and informed discussions.
r/Mixedorientation
The r/Mixedorientation subreddit page is another discussion sub for folks in mixed orientation relationships.
Our new Discord, hosted by MOR & more admins, is a private group designed for both LGBTQ+ and straight partners in mixed orientation relationships to have open and informed discussions.
r/MORandmore
Our newer Reddit community. Just another space for all folks in mixed orientation relationships.
Communities for
Straight Partners
Erasure: A Community For Bi Men
Named for the phenomenon of bi erasure many bisexual men face, this community is for those who may feel alone because of their orientation.
Bisexual Reddit
The r/bisexual Reddit group supports bisexuals, pansexuals, omnisexuals, and more. If you can't work out if you're straight, gay, or if you may be somewhere in between, this group is for you.
Transmission Ministry Collective
A faith-based Discord for Trans and gender-expansive people. Join the Transmission Discord server to chat with other trans and gender-expansive people about faith, gender, what’s going on in your life, or your favorite video game or movie.
GAMMA
GAMMA provides confidential mixed-orientation relationship support for gay, bisexual, and questioning men who are or were in a committed relationship with a woman through online group meetings.
HOW
Husbands Out to Wives (HOW) is a support group for gay or bisexual (or pan or fluid) husbands of women (either married or in a committed relationship), who either have or intend to come out to their wives/partners about their sexuality. (There is also an internal monogamy-focused sub-group.)
Books and Publications
Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity by Robert Cohen
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD, & Nan Silver
The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo by Cooper Beckett, Lyndzi Miller
A Positive View of LGBTQ: Embracing Identity and Cultivating Well-Being by Ellen D.B. Riggle & Sharon S. Rostosky
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality by Dr. Julia Shaw
With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect by Stefani Goerlich
Additional Resources
Transmission Ministry Collective
Connecting and empowering trans and gender-expansive people within a Christian context to explore gender and spirituality, share holistic care, and develop as leaders. Educating and inspiring change in broader faith communities.
The Come As You Are culture believes you should have
the kind of sex you want, not settle for the kind you (ought to) have.
Life and Relationship Coaching with Robert Brooks Cohen
Helping LGBT+, queer, questioning, and non-monogamous people navigate challenges surrounding their identity and relationships.
Find LGBTQ+ friendly healthcare near you
The world's largest therapy service. 100% online
Love is more than just the way you feel
A healthy relationship is a healthy relationship, regardless of your sexual orientation
Human Rights Campaign
Equality for All, not for some
Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere
GLAAD rewrites the script for LGBTQ acceptance
LGBTQ crisis services and advocacy
Trans Lifeline connects trans people to community support
and resources we need to survive and thrive.
The Asexual Visibility and Education Network
Advocacy and services for LGBTQ+ Elders.
We help youth and adults with coming-out issues,
safer-sex information, school bullying, family concerns,
relationship problems, and a lot more.
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