Discovering and embracing parts of your identity later in life can trigger a type of grief, known as queer grief, that expresses itself as a sense of loss around things not experienced, relationships not had, and opportunities...

What happens when your husband tells you he’s bisexual?

On October 9, 1966, our high school marching band was invited to perform the halftime show at the Oakland Raiders/Miami Dolphins football game in the new Oakland Coliseum. Our band practiced for many weeks to put on a great show. My squad would always barely miss a collision with another squad of similar instruments. I was playing a baritone horn. I wasn’t very good because my primary instrument was the violin. There was this cute guy also playing baritone in the other squad.