When I started this journey around 18 years ago, I tried so hard to find positive examples of mixed-orientation relationships. All I wanted was to know that we could make it, that we could come out on the other side okay. I wanted to see others loving each other through it, even if the relationship ended. I wanted to see kindness and empathy. I didn't find a lot of that, and it truly affected me in negative ways. Support groups, with all the benefits they offer, still bring

Mixed orientation relationships absolutely can succeed, and that success can come in many forms. Everyone's story will be different.

Embracing one's sexuality within a mixed orientation relationship can look different for everyone. It's important to discuss how embracing your partner's sexuality will look within your relationship.