What happens when your husband tells you he’s bisexual? For many straight partners who find themselves in that situation, it’s a moment filled with confusion, fear, and uncertainty. However, I found that this discovery also held the potential for deeper love and understanding. This is our story of navigating a mixed-orientation marriage, learning how to rebuild trust, and discovering that honesty can strengthen a relationship more than anything else. Discovering My Husband’s

On October 9, 1966, our high school marching band was invited to perform the halftime show at the Oakland Raiders/Miami Dolphins football game in the new Oakland Coliseum. Our band practiced for many weeks to put on a great show. My squad would always barely miss a collision with another squad of similar instruments. I was playing a baritone horn. I wasn’t very good because my primary instrument was the violin. There was this cute guy also playing baritone in the other squad.

Mixed orientation relationships absolutely can succeed, and that success can come in many forms. Everyone's story will be different.

Embracing one's sexuality within a mixed orientation relationship can look different for everyone. It's important to discuss how embracing your partner's sexuality will look within your relationship.